CAO 2 - WELCOMING AN AMBASSADOR
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BEFORE THEIR ARRIVAL

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Hospitality is the spirit. Preparation is the organisation.

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WHY THIS SHEET?

A successful welcome begins well before the young person's arrival.

Welcoming an OSE ambassador is not simply a matter of preparing a room, a timetable or a place on a team.

It means preparing a community to receive a person with their own history, culture, habits, expectations and particular way of being in the world.

Hospitality is the art of making room for someone until they are able to fully take their place for themselves.

Before their arrival, everyone must understand that the young person being welcomed will be neither a simple visitor, nor a foreign club member, nor the passive beneficiary of a scheme.

They will be an ambassador entrusted to an entire community.

Warm entrance of an OSE host family home, with the door open in welcome ahead of the ambassador's arrival

THE FIVE KEYS TO SUCCESSFUL PREPARATION

1
Aligning the four realities of the welcome

For an ambassador to be able to flourish, four realities must gradually come into alignment around them:

  • the host scheme;
  • the family;
  • the club;
  • the culture of the country.

The person always remains at the centre.

A young person does not become an ambassador through personal qualities alone. They come into their own through the meeting between who they are and the environment offered to them.

This is therefore not a matter of mechanically solving an equation. It is a matter of seeking the best possible fit between a unique individual, a family, a club, a scheme and a culture.

Success does not depend on the excellence of any single element. It arises from their harmony.

2
Preparing the host family

The family does not simply receive a young person into their home. They welcome them into their pace of life, their habits, their relationships and their daily intimacy.

3
Preparing the club

The club does not simply receive a new player. It welcomes an ambassador entrusted to it by another club and by another OSE Country.

4
Preparing their life pathway

The educational plan, sporting activity and daily life must be able to fit together simply.

5
Preparing the whole community for the encounter

The welcome must never rest on a single person or on the family alone. Everyone knows who to turn to and understands that the welcome will need to be adjusted to the person actually met.

PREPARING A PLACE

Preparing a room is not enough.
It is also necessary to prepare:

  • a place within the family;
  • a place within the team;
  • a place within the community;
  • a place in minds and in hearts.

One can never fully prepare for the arrival of a human being. What can be prepared are the conditions that will allow the encounter to take place.

MISTAKES TO AVOID

  • Reducing the welcome to its material dimension.
  • Choosing a family solely because they have a spare room.
  • Assuming that a good sporting level guarantees successful integration.
  • Expecting the young person to adapt alone and immediately.
  • Imposing local habits without explanation.
  • Neglecting the preparation of the club or the school.
  • Leaving a single person to bear the whole responsibility for the welcome.
  • Organising everything rigidly.
  • Forgetting that the young person arrives with their own history, points of reference and emotions.

GOOD PRACTICES

  • Preparing the welcome as a team, not alone.
  • Communicating beforehand with the young person and their family of origin.
  • Clearly presenting the ambassador's mission entrusted to the community.
  • Preparing the home, the club, the school and the scheme.
  • Informing and raising awareness among everyone involved.
  • Remaining flexible and ready to adjust the welcome to the person being received.
  • Cultivating a spirit of hospitality: availability, attentiveness and kindness.

THE CHECKLIST

Before the young person's arrival, can we answer YES to the following statements?
The family has been chosen and prepared.
Points of contact have been identified.
The club has identified who will support the ambassador.
The life pathway is organised simply.
The school has been informed and is ready to receive them.
The community has been informed and made aware.
The young person's needs are known.
A place has been prepared within the home, the team and the community.
The initial practical information has been clarified.
The welcome is ready… and so is the heart.

If the answer to an essential point is “NO”, it is best to take the time needed before the young person's arrival.
Time spent preparing the welcome is always an investment in the success of the exchange.

THE FOUNDER'S EYE

Hospitality is not a scheme. To welcome is, above all, to open the door of the heart.

Luis, Thomas, Éloise …and you too, if you wish

A sheet is not meant to be read. It is meant to be lived. Take the time to talk it over before deciding.